Profile Info for sfboi
My spirituality is a big part of my life. I've been studying an esoteric spiritual tradition for years and will be initiated sometime this year and belong to a queer women's coven.
I spend a little too much time online, like to read, have an on-again/off-again relationship with the gym, like traveling and staying home and can probably kick your a** at Boggle. One of the best things about living in San Francisco is the food. Tender, juicy steak that's so rare it can jump off the stove by itself, pretentious blends of spices, fancy salads with weird greens and reduced house vinaigrette, Thai food, spicy food, Humphry Slocombe, gravy, oysters, sushi, cheap Mission Mexican or Indian, organic, sustainable, free-range, hormone- and antibiotic-free _________.
There is a lot more but that's a start and I prefer getting to know people in person. :)
I don't tend to watch a lot of tv but my favorite show was Battlestar Galatica.
I like a variety of movies and generally tend to prefer both movies and tv shows with strong character development.
For music, I like 80's (love Erasure), dance music, show tunes, industrial, metal, some R&B, etc. It's easier to tell you what I don't like: easy listening/adult contemporary, jazz and folk.
Books are important too! I've been on a fantasy kick lately and some of my favorites are Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett and Philip Pullman.
I was excited when I saw this site as I've always liked older women. I'm a kinky boi bottom who likes kinky butches.
I'm looking for friends or people to date, especially those who:
are present and aware
appreciate a dry, sometimes less-than-pc sense of humor
are compassionate yet slightly acerbic
have integrity
have enough time and space in their lives for deep relationships
enjoy philosophical conversations
are as good at doing "nothing" as they are at amazing events
are as good at listening as they are at speaking
have a spiritual practice
I think what I'm looking for says a lot about me.